Being together for a long time, sometimes for a decade, finally having to break up is the reality of many couples.

On the evening of November 30, Khaleejtimes reported that Kathryn Bernardo and Daniel Padilla had officially broken up after 11 years together. Announcing the departure of the Filipino “female pearl fairy” couple, fans felt sorry.

Kathryn Bernardo was the first to announce the end of her relationship with her longtime boyfriend. On her personal page, she posted an old photo taken from her childhood with Daniel Padilla, accompanied by a long letter to fans.

After this information, an interview session of the couple was “dug up”. In the interview, Kathryn Bernardo revealed that she was not ready to get married. Kathryn Bernardo admitted that she didn’t think she would have an early wedding with her longtime boyfriend Daniel Padilla. The reason is because they want to focus on the immediate goals.

In May 2022, Kathryn caught a bouquet of bridal flowers at the wedding of filmmaker Cathy Garcia-Molina. Many fans also expressed their desire that she and her boyfriend would soon return to the same house.

The “A Very Good Girl” star also made it clear that she and her boyfriend Padilla discussed the wedding. The two agreed that they would get married when they were ready. “We all know that it’s not the time yet, and we’re both open,” the Filipino beauty revealed.

But in the end, Kathryn Bernardo and Daniel Padilla officially “went their separate ways”.

From the 11-year love story and then the breakup of the Filipino “female pearl fairy” couple, it can be seen that many couples have been together for a long time, but in the end they still have to break up.

Here are the reasons why couples who have been in love for a long time can hardly come to a happy ending.

1. There is a feeling of insecurity

Starting from gradually losing trust in each other, many couples who have been in love for a long time fall into a state of insecurity in their own relationship. And this is also a big reason why love breaks down. The feeling of insecurity appears when you always doubt the person you love on the one hand, and always lack confidence in yourself on the other hand.

In long-term love, girls are more insecure than boys. Many girls who have been in love for a long time, even though their lover has no suspicious problems, they still find themselves no longer attractive in the eyes of their lover as they were in the beginning. From there, they began to develop the mentality that their boyfriend was bored with them. This mentality makes boys feel tired of being constantly suspected by their girlfriends. Although this type of love still exists, sooner or later it will “break” because both of them do not have enough energy to deal with doubts.

2. Accumulated disagreements for a long time

In fact, the longer they love each other, the more conflicts and quarrels arise between couples. Because there are many things related to each other, because the personal ego is becoming more and more apparent, because they are getting bored with each other… There are countless reasons for quarrels. And certainly, arguing a lot cannot maintain a sustainable love.

3. Too busy

Busy with work, studying, making money… Nothing is bad but being so busy that there is no time to spend with your lover, which more or less ruins your relationship. And one day, you will suddenly receive a breakup from your lover, only then will you realize that the main cause is busyness.

4. A third person intervenes

The objective reason for falling in love for a long time is the appearance of a third person. With long-distance relationships, in the process of falling in love, two people have the opportunity to meet many new friends of the opposite sex, spend more time with them than their partners, so they are easily attracted to a third person.

While long-term love is falling into old and boring, the third person with “everything is new” is easy to have a strong attraction to you. The more you have feelings for your third person, the more bored you will be with your current lover. And that love, which is lacking vitality, has a strong external factor, so it is understandable that it will soon break up.

Psychologists advise that, for couples who are in love, especially couples who are in love for a long time, the two of you must always maintain regular and continuous connection, avoid giving the third person the opportunity to take your place as a confidant with the other half. The new lover is not attracted to another object.