Rufa and Trevor tied the knot back in 2016 and moved to the US as private citizens.

It can be recalled that late last year, Trevor posted on his now-expired Instagram Stories that they are in the process of a divorce.

“You may be aware that divorce can be very devastating to the children but also to the parents. That said, my marriage has been a s*** show and I am sorry for that,” he previously shared.

In a new statement, Rufa revealed that nothing has been finalized yet as no one has filed for divorce. She added how tricky it could be as they tied the knot in the Philippines where divorce isn’t legal.

“Yung legalities, walang file ng divorce. Walang nag file. Hindi ako mag fifile kasi andami ko ng file sa kaso. Ayoko muna mag file sa divorce kasi dito rin naman kami kinasal sa Pilipinas. Di ko na rin alam ano gagawin masyadong masakit pa. May anak din kami,” she shared.

The comedian-actress added that she is still hopeful that they can fix things as she doesn’t recall any major disagreement they had to call for a divorce.

“Bilang asawa, siyempre hinihintay ko lang na magklaro kami, na mag usap kami kung totoo ba talaga yung nararamdaman niya. Kasi laging nga akong wala so baka naman pwede lambingan muna…”

“There’s always two sides of the story pero naiintindihan ko din hindi naman siyempre puro ako lang yung tama. Siyempre siya din naman may reason din. We’re going through something,” she added.

Rufa maintained that they have never fought about money and it hasn’t been an issue for them as some netizens alleged on social media that this could be the reason for their separation.

“Hindi kami nagkakagulo dahil sa kaperahan na yan. Mag nine years na rin kami kung may problema sa pera edi mag aaway kami doon pero hindi yun,” she maintained.

In the end, Rufa humbled herself and revealed that she will agree to a divorce if Trevor really wants to cut ties with her romantically. Despite still being in love with her husband, she claimed that she is willing to let him go.

“Oo naman mahal ko siya syempre tsaka gusto ko makumpleto ang pamilya namin. Ako kasi kung ayaw na, rerespetuhin ko yun kahit masakit sa akin… Bakit ko pipilitin ang isang tao kung ayun ang nararamdaman niya,” she shared.